Thursday, April 16, 2009

ahh... spring... and sproing! heh! heh!

Above are a couple of springy corners on our burgeoning terrace: the crabapple tree and my forgotten-name beauties, with their attendant insect friends. The boys loved this picture, by the way, because they could spot at least four of their new-found buggy buddies. Can you?

Tomi and I were making a crown tonight. He'd coloured in some cute birds at school and cut them out to make a kind of tiara headpiece. After supper, we started making the headband (p)art, and he decided to go with an animalia theme that went from cute to really freakin' funny. At one point, he asked me to do a "kangaroo mommy with a baby in his pocket." I wasn't too sure of myself, so we Google-imaged "kangaroo." When Tomi said, "Waow!" Leo came racing over, and proceeded to come up with this little ditty, above. It was a frantic, tight squeeze behind my desk for a while, not least because the boys knew they'd be summoned to bed in no time at all. But they were enthralled. And when they're enthralled...

I'll try to get a photo of Tomi in his slightly-too-small-but-oh-well-it's-still-so-cute crown tomorrow...

Monday, April 06, 2009

April Showers...

...or Already May Flowers?

Well, there was the Nato occupation, yes. But the weekend in question was otherwise lovely. Really lovely. Nato actually accidentally brought home a dear, dear friend. One point in its favour. And it didn't manage to stop two other dear friends from getting married and having the wedding picnic to beat all. For this Nato gets half a point, since it had nothing to do with bringing us all together; but then again, it didn't intervene, which was a happy shock to us all. And it was sunny to set all records. No points for Nato for this one, though, for obvious reasons.

(above) Three of we four, watching the parade of Very Important People cross the Rhein, step out of their vehicles, be snubbed by Berlusconi, get their pictures taken and zoom off to the next thing on their Very Important Agendas. We were also, incidentally, looking for Härry. But he was nowhere to be found. Ah, well! We could (hardly) wait...

(above) The happiest, most well-found couple I've ever known forges ahead and into the future. Meanwhile, our escorts wait outside. (The scene, as we entered, was really funny, with radioed messages of the "shppttft! - yeah, looks like our party - pfftshtff! - three adults two children - psstshshtsht! - party entering - ssztpfft! - party taking the stairs - pshshtftft!" like. We were the last to arrive, and the gendarmes were visibly relieved.) Once inside, there was only us, a few gendarmes, the mayor and a few of his colleagues in a beautifully lit room that was like something out of a movie set in the 70's. Too good to be real. But real it was, and so was the exchange of vows and the kiss that sealed it all...

(above) Bärbel's loving escort (they are really and truly envious of Felix's luck. It'd be heartbreaking, if it weren't so funny); setting out the fabulous picnic; and, "Here's to the future!" ho-HO! The 'real' party's at the end of the summer. If it's even half as good as this day was, it'll be nirvana-esque.

(above) And last, but most certainly not least: our old, dear friend Härry, (and Jean-Philippe, Anne-Sophie and me) on the terrace at 2am - hence, our Sleep Series. Almost every time we're with Härry, we end up with a good series. This one was accidental, though. We wanted for all four to be "sleeping," but in every picture but the last one, a lone pair of eyes was gazing up at the camera. In any case, we're already looking forward to the next Härry sighting, perhaps next year, in Kiev...?

Sunday, April 05, 2009

Ciao! Nato, ciao, ciao, ciao!

Where to start? Well... the beginning is always a good place, I guess. And for me, the beginning is about two months ago, when we were chatting with a friend who works with Jean-Philippe, and the subject of "passes" "in order to go to work" came up.

Passes? To go to work? says I.

During the 60th anniversary Nato summit, says they.

They also says that they work in a "red zone." This is the first time I've heard of zones in Strasbourg, with or without Nato presence. It doesn't yet strike me as of particular consequence. And the truth is that the extent of the consequence doesn't strike me until Friday the 3rd. But I'll come back to that.

From here on out, the thing starts escalating. A friend emails to say that she won't be able to attend a little gathering at our place that weekend, because she's fleeing the city to avoid the mess. More and more people are talking of leaving the city for a three- or four-day weekend. A wave of mass hysteria seems to start, first in ripples. Bits of information are filtering through the webs. Rumours begin circulating. And the funny thing about the rumours is that more of them seem to have been true than untrue. They also seem, for the most part, to have been but tiny little tips of the iceberg.

An example of iceberg tips: First there was whispering about snipers on our roofs. Now, given the more-and-more apparent escalation of security, this didn't seem surprising; more like inevitable, albeit horrifying. But then I run into an aquaintence on the 3rd, whose friends were ousted from their appartment for the weekend - firmly, however politely - in order to provide a roost for the sharp-shooters. Their neighbours all along the quay were similarly ousted. And why were these people chosen? Because they live across the River Ill from the Rohan Palace, where the leaders of 20-odd countries were going to be entertained.

Party on.

The helicopters started circulating a few weeks ago. They came in fits and starts, whirring around, hovering, at first amusing the children, and then, surprise-surprise: the children started worrying. As the summit approached, we were being hovered over with more and more insistence, at all hours of the day and night. In a final rallying effort to wake the masses from their sleepy stupor, a helicopter cruised directly over our heads at 2:30am this morning. Our boys were having more and more trouble falling asleep this last week, worried by the incomprehensible reasons for the noise.

They'd have worried more, had they known what else was flying - though ever so much more lightly - over our heads. While walking to our friends' wedding on Saturday, I was sure I saw a drone overhead. But of course, there can't be drones in the Strasbourg skies, now, can there? So I brushed the thought away and ambled on, convincing myself that the mass hysteria had finally got to my head, too. And then, that night, a friend who works in the diplomatic corps said, "...drones in the air, too..." Ugh.

Anyway.

I managed an invite to Barack Obama's "Town Hall Meeting," which was anything but (a town hall meeting). It was actually a let-down in more ways than one. But it did allow me a brief look at the city centre on that oddest of days.

To be frank: it was appalling.

We live in a Green Zone on the edge of the Orange and Red Zones. But I walked out the door at 10am and into a ghost town. Even the tram hub - normally a bustling centre of activity - was deserted. A few businesses were open to the 1% of usual custom that they would have. Many of them, open or not, were boarded over in anticipation of violence.

The tram hub, 10am, Friday, April 3

To get to the buses that took us to the meeting, you needed to take a tram. But to take a tram, you needed to get to one. And the tram line had been cut off on the outskirts of the Orange Zone. To get to the next operational tram, you had to walk the perimeter of the red zone. It didn't look like the hour I'd given myself for this ten-minute-on-a-normaI-day-trip was gong to be enough, so I explained my predicament to one checkpoint officer, who sent me along the perimeter to the next checkpoint...

(1) the first checkpoint (2) the second checkpoint (3) view from the edge of the perimeter

...and so on down the line, until one of them took pity upon me, saying with a smile that made me think he was kidding, "This is your door in." I really did think he was joking, and he could see it, so he smiled a smidgen of a bit more broadly and said, "The door is open," and ushered me through.

My door in...

It was an odd feeling, walking through this barricade. I knew this was the only chance I'd have to get this far, since I had no pass, only this ticket for an official event that would effectively expire at 11am. There were so many things to photograph, but I was in a hurry. Silly me. I'll regret having given up some of those photo opportunities for the rest of my life.

One instance, among many: A little old lady walked up to a gendarme, standing erect against a lightpole. She was worried, because she'd been told that access to her front door would be impossible for the time being. Nobody had told her, when she left to do some shopping earlier, that this would be the case. She had medications to take... As I listened in on the conversation, hurrying to catch the last tram that would take me to my destination, I glanced down a side street and saw six enormous armoured vehicles, blocking any passage at all down that street (more like an alleyway, actually). I was reminded again of a scene I'd witnessed in Derry so many years ago. A hollow feeling came over me. How easy it is for authority to be misguided, misused and destructive. How easy it is for a population to be frightened into submission.

(1) at one of the tram barricades, three mail carriers come up against yet another problem (2) while a group of journalists? delegates? waits in vain for a tram that will never come (3) and the only vehicles for another kilometre go whizzing by...

I made it to the "town hall meeting." It was held, not in anything like a town hall, but in a sports centre in a Red Zone. After alighting from our buses, we were curiously corraled into a hall on the other side of the road. Nobody seemed to know why or for how long, least of all the organisers. So after a while, we just walked out and across the street. Some security, but not too much, since camcorders and bags had been strictly forbidden, and this was the third or fourth stage of security. Once in, we tried to find decent seats, but there were too few of them, and we certainly weren't the first in there, so... In the end, most people were either too far away to see Barack Obama, or they were sitting directly behind him, and only got a glimpse or two of The Man. His speech was good, but after a while, he came to the question of economics and responsibility, and once again, I was reminded of who had brought him here, and at what phenomenal, unbelievable cost. And for what?

A photo opportunity. A symbol.

The violation of basic democratic rights that most of the protesters were here to bring attention to is bad enough. But the thing that has bothered me the most throughout these strange couple of weeks is this: Above and beyond the above-mentioned lack of respect and the unbelievable mess that this has created for many people, none of whom were consulted as to the eventual use of their home town as a stage / military parade grounds / photographic backdrop, there is (I repeat) the phenomenal, unbelievable amount of money that was spent. Hundreds of millions of Euros. Hundreds of millions. For a symbolic photo opportunity.

When the world is experiencing an enormous economic crisis, when millions are still dying of disease and starvation, when millions still lack even the most rudimentary of education, an international organisation's leaders are telling us that "we've just emerged from an era marked by irresponsibility," and spending hundreds of millions of euros to say so, take a few pictures, and move on out to prepare for the next photo op.

Looking at those two days of Sumptuous Summit for Some from another few angles: During those 24 hours, approximately 16,000 people died of AIDS; 80,000 people died of starvation; and more than 100 million children continued to lack access to any form of schooling.

I'm just sayin'.


Oh, and while I'm at it:

When I finally got back from the sojourn to see my president, Jean-Philippe (who had a pass, remember) picked up the camera and flew out the door to see what he could see. At one point, just after taking a superbe photo at one of the checkpoints, a policeman accosted him, getting extremely red in the face, and threatening to take him to jail if he didn't erase the photo. As you can probably imagine, none of Jean-Philippe's protests for his rights (he'd checked on this beforehand, of course) had any postitive effect on the man, who simply got redder in the face, and much more threatening. So the photo was erased. My, "What could he have really done, had you just turned around and walked away?" was answered with, "Anything he wanted to."

Gotcha.

We heard a lot of grandiose talk about democracy this weekend. But one has to wonder where democracy goes at times like this.

Thursday, March 05, 2009

Funny Episode #8,752,324

I have often wondered about what constitutes "weird." My friend Amy and I used to say, "You're weird! That's a compliment!" as though it were another way of saying, "Hello!" And my Color 101 teacher once looked at me and paused before beginning her answer to whatever query or comment I'd made with, "You are one weird kid, Jennifer." She went on to explain that this was a compliment - and to be honest, that was how I'd taken it. But still... Though I don't remember what exactly we were talking about when she said that, I do remember thinking, "What was so weird about that?"

And now I'm the mom of twin five-year-old whippersnappers. But another W-word comes to mind often, when confronted with their questions, responses, stories and, well... this kind of thing:


And please believe me, it is no coincidence that there are two oranges in two different, though identical containers with two 'name tags' on them next to the piece of paper with the boys' names and two arrows. No, this was a carefully constructed piece of conceptual art. And the artist made sure that he knew what was written on the 'name tags' before he decided which one was him and which was his brother. Leo thought that Pamela was a beautiful name, and so his brother inevitably got taged with 'Bio' (Eng = 'Organic').

We are reading James and the Giant Peach, now. A few chapters at a time. I let them watch the movie before we read it together, because I wanted to be sure that they understood the story, so that we could work on their English at the same time. I am learning to be sneaky about 'teaching' them English. They don't like for their parents to be their teachers, it seems. So sneaky I must be. Anyway. We spent a lot of time on the question of what happened to his parents and why. They were truly terrified at this part of the movie, and we ended up spending about an hour and a half on those few lines in the book. But what gets me is how utterly accepting they are of the absurdity of the story - how much they LOVE the absurdity, in fact. They laughed so hard at (our reading of) the Earthworm's shark shouts and so on, that I thought they would pee their pants!

Which reminds me of the Story of Peas. But that'll have to wait for the next blog post, because we're about to leave to go hiking... Ciao for now, and a happy weekend to you and yours!

Sunday, February 15, 2009

Oh My, Valentines!

Okay, so my Aunt Peggy's scored big on the boys' list. Big-big-BIG. A small package with big punch arrived late last week, and the boys opened it to find everything their little hearts could desire: candies, talking-giggling Valentine's Day cards, and... POKÉMON CARDS! It was a very happy end to an otherwise grey day.

BIG THANKS to Aunt Peggy from the boys! What a great surprise!

The pictures from the past few weeks haven't turned out so well, but above are a couple from that evening. (Leo was not happy that he was covered a bit in the last one, but it was the last on the memory card, and I think it's funny, so...) They spent the whole evening "playing" Pokécards. I was laid out on the couch with the stomach flu, so they brought the game over to me, and explained their take on all of the new cards. It was a lot of silly-happy-little-boy fun.

On the actual Day, we all woke up at pretty much the same time. The boys came in to wake us up, and did some silly-happy-little-boy moves on, over and under our covers and legs and torsos and so on. Until suddenly: up jumped Jean-Philippe, and trailed the little ones behind him. A few minutes later, I galumped up, myself, and followed them into the kitchen, the scent of freshly brewing coffee leading the way. It took me a drowsy minute to get it, but when I did, I saw that the house had been covered in Post-It notes. A home-sized Valentines Day card!

That wasn't the end of the celebrations, though! A big, afternoon-long lunch had been planned with the family to celebrate Pépé's 70-something-st birthday. The big 'uns ate and drank too well, as always. And the cousins showed off silly-happy-little-kid-tricks to one another and glued themselves to cartoons, not really showing themselves at the dinner table until somebody mentioned "cake"... ho! ho! Needless to say, we rolled our way home afterwards...

Thursday, February 12, 2009

We Sick

The boys, several days ago, in the midst of several artistic and otherwise ventures. Leo wrote 'Tomi' with the blocks, and Tomi said, "Thank you, Leo! That's so cool! I like the way you did that!"

It's been a rough week. First my computer went down, thanks to a download that went awry. Then I got the stomach flu. Then Leo got the stomach flu. And my flu persists, despite yesterday's optimism about the subject. And I think Tomi's coming down with it, too. But he seemed alright this morning. So he's at school; Leo's in bed (after having watched Jungle Emperor and Over the Hedge); I'm huddled over my work with cramps and worry; and Jean-Philippe's peddling my theatre ticket off to friends and hoping for the best. Ugh.

There have been some bright spots on this greyish day, though.

First, there was sleepy little Leo's wake-up twittering.

"Mom! Wake up! Then we can be the first ones up, after Daddy! I'm the first one up! I'm never the first one up!"

Then there was our sweet little Tomi's chirruping, as he got ready to go to school. He was extra chirrupy today. And chirrupy on a school day is rare enough; but when one of them knows that the OTHER is going to stay home from school?! Never. Until this morning, that is.

And then, as Leo sat out a bout of you-know-what on the toilet, I suggested I read him a book.

Leo "No, I have lots of stories. I will tell you a story!"

Mom (settling down on the bathroom floor) "Great! I love your stories!"

Leo "Hm. Let's see. There are so many! Which one would you like?"

Mom "How about if you choose?"

Leo "Okay, I will tell you the story about the snowball who went to the sea."

Mom "Great!"

Leo "Uhm... Okay, but there are some 'bad words' in the story."

Mom (raising her eyebrows a bit, and not a little intrigued) "Well... If they're a part of the story, you can tell the story anyway, and we'll talk about the bad word parts afterwards."

Leo "... No, I will tell you another story. There are lots of stories without bad words. How about... The Mouth Who Couldn't Find Its Body?"

Mom "Sounds like a great one!"

Leo "Okay, but how about if you tell it?"

Mom "Alright. But you can help me, okay?"

Leo "Okay."

And so we began. And a pretty good story we came up with, too!

Tuesday, February 03, 2009

Bubbles & Weenies

Tomi & Leo, preparing for a walk - Wormy has been lost again, so Goo-Goo and Ennen Cat have been extra-cuddled of late...

Even on the tired days of falling eyelids and fizzling nerves, all it takes these days is a giggled phrase or a soft, caring look and a wee hand on the shoulder from one of our boys to take away the sting of the day and send us into la-la land. They bubble, they glow, they let us know every day, in one way or another, that we couldn't have done without them.

The other day, for example:
It was a cold, grey Sunday. But the four of us were utterly content all day, separately and together, doing this and that and the other thing. Mid-afternoon, Jean-Philippe and the boys were bundling up to go outside and kick the ball around. I was zipping up Tomi's jacket, when Leo zoomed by, crying out, "I'M THE PEE-PEE! GOING SO FAST! WHO'S ON MY TEAM?!" Tomi laughed and said, "I'm the caca*! Go-ing-rea-lly-slo-o-ow!" But there was still the question of teams. We all changed teams several times before the family's male contingent got out the door. There was a brief moment of genial ganging up. I think I ended up being on Leo's pee-pee team, though. Not that he noticed. He was too busy zooming out the door and down the steps to the makeshift soccer field, below. I could hear them screeching with delight for the next hour or so, as the bread baked and was brought out, and the Leftovers Soup bubbled away...

p.s. The day was brought to a lovely close with the impromptu visit of a couple of friends, followed by a not-so-good concert (Of Montreal) and a friendly debate (with the friends who weren't enjoying it, and followed me out to the bar for some fresh air - heh! heh!), concerning what, exactly, it was that we didn't like about it.

* caca = poop

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

A Disasters Emergency Committee (DEC) Appeal

For those of you living in the United States, I know that it is hard to get past the religiously-saturated political quagmire, and in fact much easier to avoid the subject of the conflict in Gaza altogether. I hope that you will watch this appeal, though, and give the conflict some thought from another angle or two...

Thursday, January 22, 2009

Waking Up, Smelling the Coffee

fyi - pictures have nothing to do with the text

We woke up on Inauguration Day to the usual radio voices. Or rather, we were waking up to them, when I heard a voice chirrup from the boys' room, "They said, 'Barack Obama!'" and then, "They said, 'Barack Obama' again!" and then, "Oh! They said it again!" And then another wee voice piped up, "Why-y-y?" And the first one answered, "Because he's The Good Guy!"

Later that evening (Washington, DC time + 6 hours), we settled into the couch with apples and oranges and lots of blankets, and I pleaded with the boys to keep their questions to a minimum and low-pitched until the end, so's I could hear the voices on the TV. They complied the best they could. And they spontaneously held my hands and cuddled close. At one point, one boy raised his hand. I called on him, and he leaned in and whispered, "Mommy?! They're talking at the same time as Barack Obama! I can't hear him!" The translator's wishy-washy, loud job was bothering him, too! ha! ha! (continued below...)

smoking at the diner - thanks, Disney

(continued from above...) Then the other boy stood up and said, "Can you pause it? I have to pee-pee!" My boys aren't used to watching TV (though they do watch movies, and with gusto). Later, when a visibly moved Bernard Kouchner spoke about his impressions of the day's events, the boys asked, "Can he see us?" At first I was a bit flummoxed, but then I realised that they've only really ever watched stories, and not actual events or people answering questions from off-screen. It was funny; made me think of the scene in O Sullivan's Twenty Years A-Growing, when he's arrived in Dublin, and his friend takes him to the pictures. (Oh my gosh. I just found it on the internet. If you're interested, click here.)

But back to Washington, DC and Strasbourg, France, on the 20th of January, 2009. The boys and their mom are still in front of the TV, watching an extraordinary, historical moment unfold before their eyes. And at the end, when the Obamas and Bidens were standing on the tarmac and waving, one boy knit his brow and held up his palms, asking, " "Why are they waving?" I explained. He asked, "Why are they doing that for so long? They can go now! The other guy, he's a BAD GUY! [And] he's GONE!" I had to cede the point. But was forced to explain the idea of decorum, nonetheless.

I am so relieved. But still, of course, anxious to see how things pan out... Eek!

Monday, January 12, 2009

Sunday, January 04, 2009

Happiness, Health and a Warm Hearth

All of the above to all of you from all of us -- though if you're living somewhere warm, we wish you a variation on the theme; say... an Iced Drink?

We rang in the newest year high up in the Vosges with our beloved parents/grandparents/parents-in-law, seeing the old year out with a hike into the heights and the snow; a round of Riesling and pie wedges in a chalet way up thar (not pictured below); a walk back down through the mountain's layers of snowflakes, then snowdrops, then rolling fog; a well-earned return to the warmth of the farmstead; a light and luscious meal; a dance to the lively music the radio's classical station offered us up, and which Tomi inspired us all to take up on; the crémants we'd got at the organic winemaker's in Andlau the day before; and (also not pictured below) a bouquet of fireworks as the fog closed in at midnight, turning the last page of another year's chapter in our lives.

Here are a few images from the above-described last day of the year:

Friday, November 28, 2008

"It's Our Happy Birthday!"

Okay, so I'm cheating, and the date posted is not the date posted. But (as you may have gathered from the lack of information on these pages) things haven't slowed down 'round here. In many ways, they've most definately sped up. The only thing that's stayed the same is the march of time. It seems that whether or not I agree with the speed it travels, it keeps marching steadily on. Which brings me to the point, which is:

And Now They Are Five


And what brilliant, witty, beautiful little whippersnappers they have become in these past five years. If I had the time to make a list of proofs to back up my assertions, I would. But I don't even have the time to blog about it all from time to time, so... I'm sorry, but you'll just have to believe me.

Here they are on their last day as 4-year-olds, crossing off the 27th on the countdown calendar their papa made for them, after countless questions and conversations about how long it was until their "Happy Birthday". It was hilariously cute to watch them get so into this. They tried cheating! (she shakes her head)


Here is my utterly ingenious invention, in order that Jean-Philippe be able to carry six carrot cake-breads (we had to feed 55!) with frosting to school - and get them there in relatively good shape. Grabbed the boxes from the organic store around the corner, and we were set! The box without handles fit snugly in over the deeper one, which did have handles. No trouble with slipping, sliding, balance or smushing! I won't even begin to tell you about the day I spent baking... Okay, no: I will. It started with pumpkin muffins. But 24 muffins took 4 hours. And NONE OF THEM ROSE more than a centimetre or so. Ugh. So carrot cake-bread it was. Eight in four hours. And they don't look like much (especially since six of them also refused to rise, and since I realised at 10pm that we didn't have enough powdered sugar for a proper topping...), but they were delicious! Unfortunately, I start work early on Friday, so I couldn't help with the delivery. But hey! I think I did more than my share, don't you? Heh! heh!


So. Since I am the unofficial family photographer, and since I'm like a lot of bloggers, and find it much easier to post pictures of those around me than those of myself, there are relatively few photographs of me in existence in our collection or even on our blog. The other day, though, I had to make myself an i.d. photo. So I monkeyed around with the camera for a while, trying to get something worthwhile. The next day was the boys' birthday, and by some twist of thought that started with the monkey business, I decided to start a tradition for them by which I would get a morning and an evening picture of each of their parents on or around their birthday each year. I hope they appreciate this. It was fun, but I'm not sure how happy I'll be in twenty years to see the change that has inexorably come over us. Anyway, here's me - their mom - early in the morning and later in the evening of the 28th November 2008 (and that's my beloved mug):


It was a whirlwind birthday weekend, what with work-as-unusual (as in, more than usual), combined with the school cakes to prepare; a dinner on B-Day with their mémé & pépé; the Pirates and Mermaids birthday party with school buddies on Saturday (what a blast!); a school buddy's birthday party on Sunday morning (?!); followed by a long afternoon-into-the-evening with good friends, two of whom announced that they are getting married next August! We were so tired on Monday morning (happily, but still...!) that when the alarm went off, we parents both simply integrated it into our dreams and got another forty minutes' sleep. Gulp! It wasn't the best way to start a school day... (But it was well worth it!)

Wednesday, November 05, 2008

A Most Incredible Moment


We tried to pull an all-nighter, but I lost the battle with my eyelids at around 3am (Chicago time + 7).

At 7:40 the radio woke us up, blaring the news: "BARACK OBAMA, 44ème PRÉSIDENT DES ÉTATS-UNIS!"

My eyes filled with tears of joy, relief, hope - they keep filling, again and again.

And talk about a moving speech. When I caught a glimpse of the Rev Jesse Jackson's tearful gaze, I nearly burst into sobs.

The end of one of the worst errors in recent American history is finally at hand, and we can - finally - start the massive work of repairing the damage done over the past eight years (and then some, since alot of the damage was given its start well before the worst of it).

Of note:
Fellow blogger Betsy and I both noticed a telling detail in the course of the speeches given by the two candidates last night. When McCain mentioned Obama, booing followed; whereas when Obama mentioned McCain, there was clapping. I'm sure at least 53% of you will draw the same conclusions that we did.

Friday, October 31, 2008

Circus Boys' Dreams

Above are our Circus Boys, on their last day of circus classes. Tomi in particular had been dreaming of joining the circus ever since his first sighting of nouveau cirque. There are five vacation cycles in France, starting with ten days around All Saints Day, so we filled the first week with a circus initiation for 5-7 year olds which was brilliant (and which had a secondary effect of conking three of the four of us out at hours which this family has never before seen). By the way, Tomi is walking backwards on the low beam, there. Funny, the things we take for granted when we're older. It was really touching to watch them all "try, try, try, and try it again" - and also stunning to watch them come up with some of their ideas, when they were working in groups or pairs. Kids are absolutely amazing.

Ah, and speaking of boys and dreams:

Ours began understanding the difference between dreams and reality a bit later than some, from the stories we've heard tell. But recently, they've been really into their dreams, and telling us about them. Sometimes, I suspect that they're telling us what they would have dreamed of, if they'd have had the choice. The other morning, though, I swished into their room just as Tomi woke up with a giggly laugh, saying, "Mmmm!" and then, as he came to, he mumbled, happily, "I was dreaming of chocolate!" There was a satisfied pause, and then, from the other bed, a happy little voice chirruped, "C'était quoi comme chocolat?! (What kind of chocolate was it?!)" and when Tomi didn't answer immediately, Leo said, "It was with milk in it? An' nuts?" Tomi never really did answer the question, nor did he have the time, because the idea of hot chocolate had already taken ahold of him, with the mention of a milk & chocolate combination. Suddenly, two little chocolate hounds were sprinting for the kitchen...

And then, this morning, I was in the bathroom when I heard the boys' door slowly creak open. I looked around the corner and saw a half-sleeping little Tomi, peeking out and saying, "Papa? Tu es là? Parce que je t'aime (Papa? Are you there? Because I love you)." I think he thought I was his daddy, so I said, softly, "Papa's in bed. You can go tell him..." He hugged me and whispered, "I dreamed of Daddy, and I wanted to tell him I love him." But by then, he was waking out of his dream-state, and got entangled in embarrassment, and never got around to telling his papa about it.

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

A Cartoon Lightbulb

Leo is sick, so he got to stay home today. As he was lounging in bed and his brother and papa were getting ready to head off to school, I started to explain to him how the day was going to proceed, starting with the fact that I was going to take a bath and wash my hair. This is the conversation that followed...

Leo: Why do you have to wash your hair?

Mom: Because it's dirty.

Leo: Why is it dirty?

Mom: (explains as best she can)

Leo: Why don't I have to wash my hair?

Mom: Because yours isn't dirty.

Leo: Why?

Mom: Well, little kids' hair doesn't get dirty as quickly as adults' hair does.

Leo: Why?

Mom: Good question. Yet another that I'll have to look up, later. In any case, your hair doesn't get dirty as quickly as mine does. You can wash yours less often than I do.

Leo: What is "less often"?

Mom: "Not as often"? ..."Not so much"? ..."Not as many times"? ..."A little bit - not alot"? For instance: you can do something alot, or just a little bit; you can do something often, or you can do it less often.

Leo: AH! (laughs with understanding and holds up one hand) "Ro-o-ock!... (holds up the other hand) Tree-ee-ee!..."

Those of you who have never watched The Iron Giant (1) should watch it and (2) may not get what just happened. What was really cool/funny was that Leo was clearly understanding that I was giving him an on-the-one-hand-versus-on-the-other-hand definition, and was delighted to have understood. And when the lightbulb flashed on, he immediately made the connection with the scene from The Iron Giant in which Hogarth is giving the giant his first English lesson. (Here is a page with some transcripts from the film, including this one, second from the last. The last one is actually the scene which taught the boys their first taunting/insulting phrase - another funny chapter in our family's book, which included yet another cool cartoon lightbulb.)

Monday, October 20, 2008

Blowing Kisses

My dear, dear Gramma (a.k.a, the boys' dear, dear Great-Gramma) celebrates her 88th year as a spring chicken today!

We on this side of the Atlantic wish you a very happy one, Gram - and I add my thanks (many times over) for the 39 of those years during which you've been my Gramma. xoxo

p.s. I start every day with thoughts of you as I sip my hot coffee (though admittedly not as hot as you'd like it!) in my favourite mug - the green-grey loon mug that you gave me to replace the even loonier one that was broken in our first household-with-kids accident, several years ago. Since it's addition to our household, I've only extremely rarely drunk from another. More thanks for the mug, and for its attendant daily thoughts.

The pictures are from our trip to Como Park this summer. The best part, according to everybody who was there, was our ride at the end of the day on the beautifully restored merry-go-round, which Gramma remembers riding as a child. Tomi was adamant that his great-gramma ride one of the chariots with him, and held her hand tightly the whole way. The rest of us charged ahead, atop the steeds that carried them along, so to speak. A lovely end to a lovely day.

Monday, October 13, 2008

Good Times, Gain, Losing It & Loss

(1) the casting of a most important vote* (2) the castaways at work together on their cushion raft (3) and the find of the weekend: four antique Louis-something chairs, for a song, one with the 'cast' for the cushions I'm going to make in order to prolong the life of their caning.

It was a very busy, very good weekend, filled with friends, old and new, and some quiet times so lovely that they took my breath away. It ended weirdly, spectacularly, with a bout of gastrointestinitis that made itself known to Tomi and the rest of us in the group as we waited for the train in Rosheim. Luckily, I had hurriedly stashed a pair of underwear and two plastic bags in with the rest of the junk in the backpack before we left. Even more luckily, our friend Alain had some wipeys, also for 'just in case.' And then, the weather was not only on our side, but brilliant. So the little sicky on his mother's lap in the train, wearing only a sweatshirt and undies (even the shoes and socks had to be bagged up!) wasn't too uncomfortable, after all. His mommy (ahem!) was wearing about 25 kilos of pumpkins and pumpkin beer on her back and 18 kilos of sick boy on her front, though, so she is still hurting from the exprience.**

And here is an article that went straight to my heart and head on several different levels. The compassion and caring for humanity that the various members of this family have shown - starting with their son and brother, Tom - is immense and uplifting; the thoughts and feelings shared, concerning loss and grief, are extremely well put; and the political parts are not only clear and concise, but serve to illustrate and as food for thought for so many other situations, political and otherwise.

* Please excuse the 'do.' The picture was taken before the bath was.

** His daddy can't do this any longer, because of a work-related back injury that would be all the more horrible if it were given any cause to flame back up.

Thursday, October 09, 2008

A Pick from Last June

I just realised that I had a good example of the boys' prowess scanned from last June. We had stopped by their mémé & pépé's place on the way out for tartes flambées, and pépé put a cartoon channel on for the boys. Crypton immediately caught all of their attention, making it hard to get back out and to our tartes and so on. But the up side of that part of the adventure was the drawings that the boys came up with later, while the adults chatted away over tartes and brews on the restaurant's terrace. These were the first things Leo came up with:


I have to admit that I'm feeling humbled by what is unfolding before my very eyes. And thrilled, too!

Wednesday, October 08, 2008

Another Few From the Peanut Gallery


Our boys are difficult to pull away from their "workspace" in the corner of the living room. And their teachers tell us that things are the same at school. There is so much being produced that we honestly can't keep track of it all. I'm trying to devise ways, but the work piles up faster than I can tag and file it away, or send it to those for whom it was made, or simply get it up on their art string (just above their workspace).

The pieces above and below are among the squillions of things that made me laugh or brought a tear of parental sentimentality or pride or both in the past couple of days, plus the birthday card Tomi spontaneously made for me, after their daddy told the boys that the next day was my birthday, and so on. There was a funny moment at the beginning of the conversation, when Jean-Philippe said, "Demain, c'est l'anniversaire de..."* and Leo yelped, "De NOUS!" When JPhi said, "Non, de maman!" Leo's face crumpled and he wailed, "NO-o-o-o-o-o-o-ON!" Within a minute or two, though, the boys were as excited as though it were their own birthday. Pfew! Anyway, it was impossible to choose from the piles and piles - it quite honestly made me exhausted just thinking of doing so - so I simply scanned the first things I laid my eyes on in MY workspace (whence the boys' insistence on calling their art table "ower work. space" (= our workspace)).

by Leo > from left to right > Tomi, Mommy, Leo & Daddy

by Tomi > a psychedelic skyful

by Leo > a Pokémon cat with hearts representing the four (nuclear) family members, subsequently cut out with a pair of poor kiddie scissors (the boys are looking forward very much to their first pair of real scissors).

* "Tomorrow is guess-who's birthday?" "OUR birthday!" "No, it's mommy's!" "NO-o-o-o-o-O!"

Tuesday, October 07, 2008